Weekend Wrap Up - Clothes, Concert, And A Decision

Weekend Wrap Up - Clothes, Concert, And A Decision

We came out of the weekend with a bit of a decision to make, which I detailed under Sunday below. Opinions welcome!

Friday - This was our once a month early-AM housecleaning morning, so we followed our usual routine of heading down to the harbor to enjoy a five mile walk. On the return, we stopped in at a supermarket so I could load up on a few loss leaders - $1.99 pork loin, which I sliced into chops and individually froze*, $2.99 boneless chicken breast and thighs, which I also froze in separate pieces, and six $0.88 a boxes of pasta.

• * I lay wax paper on a flexible, plastic cutting sheet, lay out the proteins, place in the freezer, and flip at about the two hour mark. Once flipped, I generally leave them until the next morning, then bundle into freezer bags. At that point, pulling out just one or several protein items at a time is a piece of cake.

I next picked up a sandwich at a nearby deli, which I took over to share with a dear friend undergoing cancer treatment, but who is currently off cycle to allow her appetite to return and regain some weight before entering her next treatment cycle.

It was a poignant get together. This is her fourth bout with cancer, and this one is in her brain. At a certain point during our visit, she alluded to beginning to accept that this battle was one she might not win. I had already begun to work on accepting that as well, but had decided that it wasn't my conversation to have with her until she gave a sign that she wished to. So, this was the sign, and in response we gripped hands and hugged, even as we did not go any further in discussing outcomes.

I love and will miss her. Terribly. But for now, she is here, and I will do my best to simply support her in her journey.

After returning home I had a slew of small chores to take care of, then I retired to the sofa to read some of the operations manual for my new SUV, plus watch a little TV in that my spouse was out for the evening at a men's event.

Saturday - Attended a fund raising event at a nearby shopping center. Tickets purchased for the event went to support one of my women's club's chosen charities, and included lunch, wine tasting, and a small discount on purchases made from participating stores.

So I shopped and shopped - this is the day I finally committed to purchasing new jeans that were fitted to my new, smaller size, plus that were a bit more on trend than my beloved skinny jeans. I found an adorable store where the saleswomen literally made all the choices for me - what size, what style, what top to go with. It was so fun, and so easy, that I think I'm going to use this store for most of my casual purchases going forward. Here are a couple of the outfits they put together, which I did buy:

Loved this outfit, and wore it on Saturday night.

I'm OK with this outfit as well, even if I have to laugh at how large the pants look compared to the above pair.
However, both of my daughters gave them a thumbs up, so I went with that.
And certainly they were comfortable!   😄

Since my spouse was once again away at his men's gathering, after returning home I forced myself to go through my closet and shed some of the 'comfort' clothes I've accumulated over the last 10 or so years. I pulled out so many items, perhaps 40 or so, that even after putting away my new purchases, my closet still feels roomier.

I then got dressed up in one of my new jeans outfits and headed over to pick up my mom to attend a British Invasion tribute concert in her 55+ community's performing arts center. It was fun and we both had a great time. 

Sunday - After pulling all of my old, now-too-big, skinny jeans out of my closet during my Saturday closet purge, I dashed over to H&M to quickly determine my new skinny jeans size, and then buy one pair in every color they had on the floor, six pairs in total.

Got in a quick two mile walk, then got ready to attend an Open House at a yacht club we had been invited to join. The reason for our interest in the club, given we don't own a boat nor have any intentions of buying one, was for it's scenic harbor location and numerous social aspects. This club has an active social calendar, and many of the members join solely for that reason, not because they own boats. 

Because we have recently lost several friends to illness, and see that sadly unchanged as we all continue to age, I clearly see the ongoing need to work to expand our social circle, or risk becoming increasingly isolated in the years ahead. As an extrovert, I am happy to make this ongoing effort to do so. As a somewhat introvert, my husband is a bit less so, lol. 

However, he likewise understands that we have to continue to exert effort in staying connected with our community, and thus is fully on board with proceeding, particularly after our visit to the club went so well. Really friendly people, nice dining restaurant, beautiful views and outdoor seating, and a robust social calendar.

Fees are in the mid to high $200's monthly, which we can comfortably afford, and which we can discontinue at any time should we change our minds. However, it feels just a bit decadent for some odd reason, and that is what I am struggling with, even as I love the idea of having a regular place to go and listen to music, watch the sunset, enjoy light bites, and socialize.

And hence where I welcome opinions!

Otherwise, our quarterly book club get together finished off the day. Great food and great discussion as always, this time about the recent award winning novel James by Everett Percival. 

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Today Healthy Focus Plan - Work a volunteer shift at the library, book our December Nashville and January Palm Springs lodgings, start dinner in the crockpot (Italian chicken stew), go on a four mile walk, and read the first 10 pages of our next Book Club selection, a 700 page tome - we only meet quarterly, so 10 pages a day should do it, plus allow plenty of time for me to read my own book selections.