Weight Loss Maintenance At Six Months In
I posted the following comment over at The Hawaii Plan this morning, and I thought, 'Gosh, I could turn this response into an entire blog post!' So, that's exactly what I decided to do.
Here is the comment, in response to a question about how readers were doing with their health and fitness goals:
I always have small 100 calories packets of plain almonds with me everywhere I go. They really are the perfect food for quick, clean energy, both mental and physical. I highly recommend.I have kept my lost weight off for over six months now. It's simple but hard (!)- I weigh myself each and every morning, and continue to make a daily food plan. The food plan is the most important component for me. Once I walk thru my day, mentally, and plot out my daily allotment of food/calories, I'm highly likely to stick with it.I'd like to say it gets a lot easier, but in my experience it does not. I just get to finally enjoy the rewards of being thin along with the ongoing need to self discipline.Fit is easy- I walk miles and miles and love it. Turns out it was never the exercise that was an issue. It was the food.
I'm now approximately six months post reaching my goal weight of 108 pounds. Unfortunately, unlike breaking my sugar addiction, where the sugar cravings have pretty much disappeared, I still think about food a lot. I'd thought, hoped, my general food cravings would dissipate, but they have not. They are still alive and well, and they are still an unpleasant chatter in my brain that generally begins in the late afternoon and continues on for several hours. Generally, by about 7 PM, I can shut them off and finish the remainder of my day in peace.
My self discipline, pretty much finely honed with regard to food at this point, generally allows me to ignore the chatter and stay with my food plan for the day, but it is beyond annoying that I'm still having to fight food noise.
The difference between fighting the food noise now, in maintenance, vs fighting it while working to lose weight, is my rewards for ignoring the noise are immediate and numerous.
- I have a new wardrobe of smaller clothing that both fits and makes me feel great while wearing them.
- I very much continue to enjoy iced black coffee as my pick-me-up treat.
- My social life is extremely robust, and the compliments from the folk I'm with at an event seem to flow effortlessly. Those unsought compliments are just as enjoyable to my psyche as a sugar-laden dessert used to be, but with no negative downsides. Meaning, ha, my clothes still fit the next morning!
- I like the way I look now in photographs, so no more agonizing over how to 'hide'.
- I no longer grab for my ubiquitous 'butt wrap', a staple of my pre-weight loss life. It's beyond a relief to no longer agonize over the parts of my body I disliked.
- Clothes shopping is now a joy, and the primary way I reward myself when in search/need of a mental pick-me-up.
- 4/20 Daily Food
- Breakfast: 200 (Date bar)
- Snack: 100 (Almonds)
- Lunch: 270 (Trader Joe bean & rice burrito w/salsa)
- Snack: 150 (Greek yogurt, 1/2 cup berries)
- Dinner: 200 (Wine, deli cheese slice, 4 crackers, 1 cup baby carrots)
- TOTAL: 920

New to your blog. The dinner portion seems light on protein. Maybe the food chatter you are experiencing is your body’s way of trying to get more nutrients.
ReplyDeleteNope, its there regardless of what I eat. Eggs, chicken, almonds, beans, etc. It's 100% not about real hunger, because I'm not hungry when it occurs. It's about something else, and that is what makes it so frustrating and hard to quash.
DeleteAnd thank you for your comment!
- Tamara / My Retirement Project
your excessive obsession about food/weight could lead you to anorexia. be careful.
ReplyDeleteMy understanding of anorexia is that it's about seeking control in response to life. That is not an issue I have. Over here, I'm just trying to find equilibrium with food. It's ridiculously hard for some of us.
Delete- Tamara / My Retirement Project
To those commenting on my weight and focus as being excessive - I ask how it is obsessive if my BMI and caloric intake are precisely as indicated they should be to remain within the range of 'Healthy' for my age/gender/height?
DeleteI share here to help myself stay the course, and to give clarity to just how hard it is to get and remain thin to others who might be on a similar path. A very healthy thin, per the matrix guides readily available online. I'm happy to be proven wrong if there is data to support that, but all I've seen are stats that match precisely where I'm now at.
You look fabulous! Cindy in the South
ReplyDeleteYou are always so kind, Cindy in the South, thank you sincerely.
DeleteI remember what you shared here previously about your own struggles. Mine are not remotely similar, so I can assure you I have things under control. Except that annoying Food Noise, which is not about hunger whatsoever. Hence why it's probably so challenging to quash.
We need less calories as we age. I think you are doing great and eating a balanced healthy diet. Cindy in the South
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